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He’s opened my eyes to the fact that there are a lot of men out there who prefer plus-size women and that the pool isn’t as small as I thought it was.And I feel very secure and confident when I’m with him.And a lot of men who are attracted to plus-size women love the feeling of weight.There’s the whole dominant-submissive side of fetishizing a plus-size woman, wanting her to be in control, to be physically bigger.I didn’t gain a freshman 15, I gained a freshman 50.
Some jerk once IMed and asked, “Are there really guys out there who are attracted to you?I grapple with the term because what’s the difference between a fetish and a preference?I once went out with a guy I met on Nerve, then didn’t hear from him again.It was a different world there: Size wasn’t so much of an issue, though there was a hierarchy, with the skinnier girls at the top.I had a few boyfriends every summer, and when I got really thin, I suddenly had a boyfriend back at school, too. After that it was back to the old way, and I didn’t have a boyfriend anymore. I was always overweight, but when I got to Vassar I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome.
And I’ve been contacted by men on BBW sites who ask me if I’m open to a feeding relationship, which I’m not.